How do I change how I feel if I know/feel deep down it's all a lie.
By - Cybros74
The rule of thumb is: "***Be as specific as you can be and still feel good***". So if you are fretting about the *when/how/where* or knowing it's all a lie, that's ***too specific*** and just be more general and go back to thinking about just the [essence](https://www.reddit.com/r/lawofattraction/comments/ms1v8p/you_can_always_have_anything_you_want_in_essence/) of your desire. Remember, you don't even have to think about any of the specifics about your desire at all to get it. In fact, it's probably almost better that you don't because everyone has so much resistance about the specifics of their desire. Only think about it because it's a fun and delicious thought.
What's all a lie? I think if you need help with this you will need to elaborate a little bit if that's okay. I think people on here can help you just give a few more details
Like, I hear "believe deep down" "feel like you have it" "know it's yours" but just I feel like I'm lying to myself and that "she'd never actually like me" "you're delusional" "you're wasting you're time"
I think you will find it helpful to read the writings of Neville Goddard. Or listen to him on YouTube, there are lots of channels that play his stuff. He talks about that all we have to worry about is the reality we create with our imagination, and we have to let go of wanting it to appear in the physical world around us. If we imagine what it would be like if our desire already happened, what would you be doing, what would you be saying, where would you be going, how would you feel. Just worry about that and let the other stuff go. And it actually makes it quite easy, we can't change the physical world we can only change the reality in our mind, and if we're consistent it will come to us when it's time. You also have to have confidence and trust in the law of attraction. So also spend some time listening to and reading about success stories. You simply will not get what you desire unless you believe you can get it. So if you can create that dichotomy between your mind and the physical world outside of you, then it's easy to believe you can create this reality in your mind. We can all create whatever we want in our mind. And just do it consistently..
If you’ve told lies just address them all be honest an you’ll feel like a completely new man